My first wife was pure black African and I lived with her happily 10 years till she passed away. Then, I got married to a Malay girl in Japan 3 years ago and I'm very happy again. Happiness related to our own!

Personally I think they usually chooses one of two options. 1. One of them adjusts to the other one's culture(including the language) competely. 2. They both share their cultures. If some couples decided to live in a Western country where one of them comes from, they are likely to choose the first option. If they decided to live in an Eastern country where one of them comes from, they choose the second option as you can see. Exceptionally if they are from an Western country and their parents are from one of Eastern countries, they choose the last one. As they strart to have a relationship, communicating with each other is the matter, so they will feel it's easier to speak English at first. However if one of them isn't very fluent in the language, that one could come to think 'Why do only I have to speak a second language?' and could want to speak in one's native language. If the other one can speak that one's native language, that one can talks with the other one as people from one's country talk together. They want something from each other, they should tell each other. They could not know something that people from the same country can know without telling others because of cultural difference. For example, if I was one of them, maybe I miss someone who can understand why I want the Korean alcohol and the Korean pancake whenever it rains. Some people react like "Ughhh- Really??? Interesting!" about cultural stuff, and understand it as cultural embeds, also they could take an interest in it. Other people react like "What's that…?" and try to avoid it even after some time had passed. Of course the former case is better, the latter can becomes a serious problem. But first of all, it's most important to have enough time in order to know he is as worth as I strive to build a lasting relationship. To build a lasting relationship isn't that easy even if they both are from the same country and the similar background.

It doesn't matter. If you love you can marry in spite of nation.

I Australia many nationalities intermarry with few problems. However, both people would have to be very patient & understanding with each other. If their family & friends didn't support them, they'd have a lonely life until they found other friends.

i think it is good that people from other races get married becasue it shows us that unity amoung the world. yes it may be alittle hard for them in this day and age becasue of all the rasicm and hate for other races. but the comming togethor of two races shows that there is hope for the world to unite under one banner and put an end to the hate.