Selfishness Engaging in a serious relationship is something worthy of our deep thinking without rush. Because the pain that might hurt us from the failing in a relationship could last forever. No one could help us to heal from such a trauma, because no one is capable to feel our inside pain as we do. People who are reluctant to decide whether to proceed in their relationship or to quit are frightened to not to be able to handle the fallout in case they failed. Nowdays I reckon that the successful relationships are rare, because our patience became less to give the other side enough time to become our companion. Our selfishness is always the first enemy that will destroy our happiness.