Should I figure out what happened to my marriage? I was mad of pictures of my ex-husband wedding, 6 months after our divorce. I doubt that he had an affair during our marriage. Should I contact with him and figure out what is truth? I met my ex-husband in a accident trip when I was having business trip in German, where he lives in. During the 2- week-long trip we fell in love, and kept a long distance relationship for 1 years, and got marry at the following year. That was the beginning of my horrible 3 years marry life. He didnot trust me , and he tried to control me remotely. What it is more even after having fighted back China at 12 p.m., and having checked my mobilephone and diary, he did not trust me. His trustless afflicted both of us. He mentioned divorse 3 times, and I redeemed it 3 times. I thought there were not big issue between us, for I did not betray our marriage; and I spent 1 years to get licence of psychology which maybe help him and me. But at the end, he claimed divorce 4 times before the time he promised when he came back china, for no reason. I despaired that time, and thought both had suffered the horrible marriage for 3 years. But just 6 months after our divorce, he married one of our friends. 6 months is too short for a Chinese in german to marry. So he must have had an affair during our marriage. That is ironic that a person who don't trust his wife have an affair. I am mad of it. Should I figure out if he had had an affair. If it's true, I need a appologise.