Happy Learning My baby girl has went to the primary school for two weeks. last Weeked, her two teachers went to our apartment and visited our family. At the Beginning we were very excited, my baby girl practiced her GuZheng instrument for her two teachers, and she also cleaned up her stuff and put everything in order to impressive her teachers. We were expecting a praise from her teachers. On the contrast we were very disappointed, he teacher told us that my girl was ranked the last three in her classroom, the reason for it that we didn’t learn anything when other kids tried to study the primary courses when they were at kindergarten. There is a prevail phenomenon here in China, it seems every kids wants to be the top one student in the school, their parents push very hard to help their babies to study, so that they could be survive in the adult world. Our girl didn’t learn the primary courses in the kindergarten, but she loves GuZheng and Taekondo, and she learns very well, all of that in her teacher eyes, that is our fault for lacking of primary school courses learning. Many moms are called tiger moms in China, most of them have decent jobs, but in order to take care of their kids’ study, they quit and become a housewife, here in Beijing, housewives are very popular. My baby’s teacher told me I need to take more time for my baby, but as a full time mother, I couldn’t . The teacher gives lots of assignments to the students and all of the homework needed the parents’ instructions, that means if we don’t have time to take care of my baby’s study, my girl will be left behind forever. A country with dense population, everyone could see the fierce competition, everyone is nervous and strive hard to climb to the top rank of the society, do we really need to be strive that hard?even sacrifice our interests which makes us happy? Maybe we could live better if we only learn things based on our interests and ignore some part of the competition.