Encounter My friend broke up with boyfriend few month ago. Apparently she got a thing for someone. She told me about him today. " we met through a mutual friend. He has been divorced once and he has two children an elementary school student and a middle school student. We have been exchanging emails everyday. He asked me out for dinner yesterday. What should I do? I have never seen him alone. I haven't a nice cloth and shoes and on top of that, I'm fat and my hair is messy." I gave advice to her. "Looks are not everything, right? The most important thing is your personality. Though you are fat your face is so cute. And after all I love your personality! You should go out with him." In the end she decided to see him.