Driving and trusting I remember clearly my first driving lesson. It was on a long and narrow road, my teacher asked me to change seats and after that said: "Go". I couldn't. I explained to him that it was a really bad idea for different reasons. There were many cars and the road was so narrow, but he asked to trust him. I couldn't. This day I failed a task. I had many insights and thoughts when I was learning how to drive. One thought replaced another. Suddenly, I paid attention to bus drivers which I didn't notice before. They were my superheroes who weren't cowards like me. I admired average drivers who understood the rules of this road world. They were my heroes too. After all, I become part of it and lost my superheroes. Instead of them, I started to divide people unpolite or impolite drivers. It was more than just lessons of driving. At that time, I realized that I couldn't really trust people. I needed to feel that I took control of a situation. It was my way to felt safety. It was really a bad way. Many years I was using this "untrusted principle" and who know how long it would be continued. The driving lesson helped me understand that good learning without deep trusting didn't exist. If I want to make a progress I should relax and believe a man who wants to share his knowledge with me.