How should parents help children to be independent? Parents' honey is us ,that specially one family just have a one kid in current china. They are would like to help us to consider everthings and want to da lot of things that are belong to us initally. such as wash our cloth, buy expensive gift, gift hign calorie snack for us. And they often teld their children they are not tired, that thing is love for kid. But actually the effect is not as good as they thinking. Due to children obtain they "special love" , they do not like to work. They are more depent on parents care. They body is not health because ate lot of snack.they become money-oriented and grimy evil. And the worse thing is misguild kids mind what is the love actually. Children will be grow a man some day, and they parents will not care of their kid whole life, so indepedent is a wonderful sikk for kids. In order to children can manage themself better, parents should let child learn willpower ,workhard and a lot of skill so on. Money should not pay in the indolent thing but is to afford some ability skill in advance. Attention is more putting on they psychology health but bot help kid do anything.