Overcoming a Weakness
One of my greatest weaknesses that I have been working on it is expressing my ideas clearly when I am talking to friends or in discussions.
Over the years, I have been strugling with the pressure of talking in public and I realized that one of the main reasons why I did not get good performances in discussions is because I cannot order my ideas properly. As a result, I did not reach smooth explanations. I found out that it was because of a lot of ideas came up to my mind at once or worst sometimes neither of them showed up. Another reason that I found it was that I did not find a way to explain what I was thinking and also I was afraid of what people would think of my point of view. In addition, sometimes I felt concerned about someone else saying the same I was going to talk about and; consequently, I would not have a relevant idea to add to the conversation or merely my ideas would become unnoticed.
To resolve this problem, I decided to talk to some friends who seem to have a good control of the situation every time they explain their ideas. One friend advises me to be more self-confindent and express my ideas without second thoughts because they are not wrong or right but you can agree or disagree with them and that produces a good dicussion. Another told me that I had to summarize my ideas and expressed them in few minutes to no overload convensations with irrelevant information. I've been aplying these advices and many more for a couple of years and I have more self-confidence in what I talk.
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Overcoming Weakness
One of my greatest weaknesses that I have been working on is expressing my ideas clearly when I am talking to friends or in discussions.Over the years, I have been struggling with the pressure of speaking in public. I realized that one of the main reasons why I did not perform well in discussions is because I cannot order my ideas properly. As a result, I did not achieve smooth explanations. I found out that it was because a lot of ideas came to my mind at once, or worse sometimes I would have no ideas. Another reason that I found was that I could not find a way to explain what I was thinking, and I was afraid of what people would think of my point of view. In addition, sometimes I felt concerned about someone else saying the same thing I was going to talk about, and consequently, I would not have a relevant idea to add to the conversation or my ideas would go unnoticed.
To resolve this problem, I decided to talk to some friends who seem to have good control of the situation every time they explained their ideas. One friend advised me to be more confident and express my ideas without second thoughts, because they are not wrong or right even though you can agree or disagree with them, and that is what produces a good discussion. Another told me that I had to summarize my ideas and expressed them in a few minutes to no overload conversations with irrelevant information. I've been applying their advice and others for a couple of years, and I have become more self-confident when I talk.
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Overcoming a Weakness
One of my greatest weaknesses that I have been working on it is expressing my ideas clearly when I am talking to friends or in discussions.Over the years, I have been struggling with the pressure of talking in public and I realized that one of the main reasons why I did not get give good performances in discussions is because I cannot order present my ideas properly. As a result, I did not achieve reach clear smooth explanations. I found out that it was because of a lot of ideas came up to my mind all together at once or worse, sometimes neither of them showed up. Another reason that I found it difficult was that I did not find a way to explain what I was thinking and also I was afraid of what people would think of my point of view. In addition, sometimes I felt concerned about someone else saying the same thing I was going to talk about and consequently, I would not have a relevant idea to add to the conversation or merely my ideas would become unnoticed.
To resolve this problem, I decided to talk to some friends who seem to have a good control of the situation every time they explain their ideas. One friend advises me to be more self-confindent and express my ideas without a second thoughts because they are not wrong or right but you can agree or disagree with them and that produces a good discussion. Another friend told me that I should had to summarize my ideas and expressed them in few minutes so as not to no overload conversations with irrelevant information. I've have been applying this these advices and many more for a number couple of years and I now have more self-confidence in expressing my ideas. what I talk.
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