What is the ultimite cost?

greetings from Ukraine ;)

Today I'm making another entry in my journal. ;) I'm quite happy to say that today I didn't do much. I didn't study English a lot completely, because I'm sick of this stupid language (no offense).

But I've decided to do a little bit of writing prictice, just for fun and to enjoy myself. So, here I go...

So I'm going to write about a quote from part of Tony Robbins' program, called 'Personal Power'. Not really a part, but the sentece that I heard. The quote sentence is this - "What is the price of NOT challenging yourself. What would it cost you, if you don't Decide?"

In that program tape, he's referring to basic activities, like losing weight, stopping smoking, getting a girlfriend or boyfriend that you're we're attracted to.. His idea is that people always have to deal with only 2 things, and they are pain and pleasure.

1) People need to avoid pain (that's obvious)
2) People want to experience pleasure...

So I want to use my personal an example from my personal experience example (since it's my personal diary). About 1 year ago I always went got to work by a bus.. and almost every time I went to the bus station there was a pretty woman that was standing next to me while we were waiting for the bus. And honestly, I wanted to say something to her, just to say 'Hello'..but I was got stopped because I was afraidby my fear...The fear of pain stopped me from doing what I we really wanted to doin our lives. I'm sure this happens to everyone at some point in their of his life..

So, this situation continued for 1 year, and each time she came I looked over at her, admiring her beaty..If I noticed her looking she looked back at me, I would immediately look away... And then at some point, she stopped going to the bus station and I never saw her again..

If I analyze this situation, I remember Tony Robbins' words...'What is the ultimite price'. And to me be this was obvious. I lost the chance to get the woman I desired.

1) Fear of being rejected
2) Chance to date the woman that I really like

As you can see, the first choice won. And this happens quite often to be honest. I need to break this circle of failure, but how?