Reciprocality Everyone has someone who brings our potential ability out. They are the source that encourages us to be more brave. Who is that kind of person to you? We often make resolute plans at first, but in some cases they become very vulnerable by external circumstances in reality. Every time when I cast a doubt on the practicality of my plans, I feel withdrawn and start to ponder if I should change my plans or lower expected value. Then, However, the people who emotionally support us just come up and say that they still believe I can do what I want. The interesting thing is that we play the same role to each other. We sometimes don’t believe in ourselves but tell our friends, ‘you can do everything you want to do.’ This reciprocality has an enormous impact on our lives because that’s one of the reasons that we continue to keep up with our dreams instead of giving up so easily. When I feel so bad, I try to think about people I’ve met in my life. Some relationships look very inevitable and others are not still understood-how I came to meet them and befriends with them. Any kind of relationships they are, it is very obvious that we affect each other however insignificant our behaviors are. At first, we might not realize how influential we are to each other. Some years later or after we go through some occasions, we sometimes find out our decisions would have been different if I hadn’t met the people I’ve met.