But they don't work in reverse. On the other hand, If a Chinese man is in love /marriage with having a foreigner wife, he will be is considered highly intelligent and competent. [所謂封建重男輕女與古代和親的遺餘思想]

My language partner felt it was racism and was in a furious mood. I was sympathetic and embarrassed. I see it as cultural differences but not racism. The Chinese don't hate any people from any country ( other countries;  except who perhaps not those does did not admit guilt for the wars and massacres. slaughters, and Only a saint can forgive everybody). [這句你說得不对了. 滿族何况如此. 你忘了明沒清初的江南大屠殺]To be honest, I know very little about love and marriage, not to mention let alone multinational interracial ones. I shall can only opine say some reality what I know.

But they don't work in reverse. On the other hand, If a Chinese man is in love /marriage with having a foreigner wife, he will be is considered highly intelligent and competent. [所謂封建重男輕女與古代和親的遺餘思想]

My language partner felt it was racism and was in a furious mood. I was sympathetic and embarrassed. I see it as cultural differences but not racism. The Chinese don't hate any people from any country ( other countries;  except who perhaps not those does did not admit guilt for the wars and massacres. slaughters, and Only a saint can forgive everybody). [這句你說得不对了. 滿族何况如此. 你忘了明沒清初的江南大屠殺]To be honest, I know very little about love and marriage, not to mention let alone multinational interracial ones. I shall can only opine say some reality what I know.

But they don't work in reverse. On the other hand, If a Chinese man is in love /marriage with having a foreigner wife, he will be is considered highly intelligent and competent. [所謂封建重男輕女與古代和親的遺餘思想]

My language partner felt it was racism and was in a furious mood. I was sympathetic and embarrassed. I see it as cultural differences but not racism. The Chinese don't hate any people from any country ( other countries;  except who perhaps not those does did not admit guilt for the wars and massacres. slaughters, and Only a saint can forgive everybody). [這句你說得不对了. 滿族何况如此. 你忘了明沒清初的江南大屠殺]To be honest, I know very little about love and marriage, not to mention let alone multinational interracial ones. I shall can only opine say some reality what I know.

A View of exotic love Interracial Love and Marriage and cross-border marriage(part one）

One of my language partners is confronting this problem. It is beyond him why the Chinese guys disapprove of Chinese girls dating him. He tried to find the answer from me. But I am a woman, [not a man] a lady [你寫法是說你是个賢淑的女子!], not sure how guys feel about it Therefore I don't know their views. And not many people are of one mind even I become a manEven if I was, there are differing views! It is In my opinion, many view that a great number of Chinese girls ladies don't think a long-distance love/marriage relationship has any good prospect at all as well.

I'd like to only state the general prevailing a views generally accepted by the Chinese. If a Chinese girl is in a relationship with a foreigner, Chinese tend to it is believed that she is a gold digger; seeking an opportunity for immigration/trying to emigrate or feeding her vanity. (some folk think mixed-race kids are wiser and prettier. I bet they don't master genetic biology).Some think mixed race children looks better.  I bet they don't know any knowledge of genetics.  [All depends on the features.  Chinese like big eyes; sharp noses and fair skin. On the other hand, having blue eyes on yellow skin and flat noses are considered ugly.  I should know as I have interracial marriages in my family]