I do not care not if I offend you, what I say said is the truth true [or "what I say is true."]

Who has Ever heard that of the phrase, “I say speak what I think; I don’t care if you like it, the sincerity is above all else things”? Most of the time, people who say utter this, are either in have a position in the job well protected of power or is somebody one who in the lowest rungs of society. has low economic. In either case, or people they don’t need money can either afford it or don’t need to be diplomatic at the time to nothing to lose to express their opinions in such a manner.

I advocated honesty in the communication both the moment to express our vision of the world as the moment unvarnished so as to recognize our mistakes. but However, the most important crux is “to know how to say the things to express honestly without being offensive”, i.e .  By this to choose correctly the time and to say proper choice words provoking the other side to be on defensive or in flattery terms that defeat the whole purpose of the words being uttered. to express our thinking with the least animosity.

Your essay struck a chord with me.  So I am not correcting your piece but to polish it to a higher level.

I do not care if I offend you; I speak the truth

Who has ever heard that phrase “I say what I think; I don’t care if you like it. the Sincerity above all things”? Most of the time, people who say this, have a position at work well protected or is somebody who has a low income (I'd say "...dosen't have much to lose."). In either case, (perfect use of that phrase!! :) )are people that don’t need money or don’t need to be diplomatic in expressing their opinions.

I advocated honesty in the communication both in the moment of expressing our vision of the world, as well as the moment of recognizing our mistakes, but most importantly “to know how to say the things without being offensive”, i.e to choose correctly the time and place ("the time and place" is a common phrase) to say proper words and to express our thinking with the least animosity.

Anyway, the persuasion is an art, which requires respect and empathy. This is something that a lot people forget, where sometimes sincerity is confuesd with tactlessness and diplomacy during a discussion or debate.

An important key to know how to say the things without to being offensive; is to gain the respect of each others. The way easiest to lose it, is to become us in a gossipy person who exploits any confidence to everyone.

Under different circumstances is necessary to be mature, obviously. One learns this through the experience, (especially) when it is the time to shut up, to talk, to animate, or to change the topic quickly. 

When one is young, one almost always wants to have the reason and one thinks that our ego must be prevailed and to be noticed because one believes it to be an a phase of the life where one wants to have a place and a position. However, with the time (or "with the passage of time") one can see with a small, but powerful, quibbling mark the difference between to being a good and reliable friend or a brute person who nobody appreciates.


Tell us pleaseee!, Do you preffer to be sincere, no matter if you are being offensive? or do you preffer to be a little diplomatic at the time to face some situation?

Wow! Awesome essay, and a very intricate topic. I usually try very hard to say what I mean as diplomatically as possible. I agree that it is easier for people in high places to speak out, but that makes it even more important when those of us in the real world of the common man do.

When one is we are young, almost always wants to have the reason and one thinks that our ego must be prevailed and to be noted over everything because one we believes to be an a phase of the life where wants to have a place, or a position to be upheld. , However with the time, one can see that the small but powerful quibbling mark the difference between to be a good and reliable friend or a heavy person who nobody appreciates. soon learns that the insignificant words can be very hurtful to others.  Choice words can determine a life long friendship or a Nosy Parker whom no one wants to hang around with.

Tell us pleaseee!, [Since you are the writer, only one person, the use of "us" means the "royal we".  You are inferring that you are superior!] Please tell me.  I would be most grateful.  Do you preffer to be sincere no matter if you are being offensive? or Do you preffer to be a little diplomatic at the time to face some situation? sincerity at all cost or be a lying diplomat?

This depends on the situation.  As a parent to a child, you need not be so diplomatic.  You just explain the reason.  To another adult, diplomacy is always the best unless that person is a dense piece of wood.  Honey catches flies, not vinegar.

Anyway, the Persuasion is an art from, which requires requiring respect and empathy. This is something that a lot people many of us tend to forget. where Sometimes confuse sincerity is confused with tactless and diplomacy at the time to talk. 

An important key to know how to say the things without to be offensive is to be able to gain the respect of each the other. and The way easiest to lose respect  it, is to become us in a gossipy person who explain any confidence by trying to be a Miss Know-All [to everyone].

Under different circumstances, is necessary to be Being mature, obviously, one learns this through the experience, (especially) when it is the time when to shut one's trap. It is through experience that we learn how to  up, to talk, to animate or to change quickly of quickly deflect some uncomfortable topic or to tell someone gently that we are not interested in hearing it. [don't quite understand what you are saying, so I am guessing.]

I do not care if I offend you, I speak the truth.

Who has ever heard that phrase “I say what I think; I don’t care if you like it or not, sincerity above all things”? Most of the time, people who say this have a well protected job or, as a consequence, they have a low income. In either case, these people don’t need money or don’t need to be diplomatic at the time to express their opinions.

I advocate spontaneous and unconsored honesty in our communication to express our opinion of the world as the moment to recognize our mistakes, but most important is to “to know how to say things without being offensive”, i.e to choose correctly the time and place to say proper words to express our thinking with the least animosity and antagonism.

Anyway, persuasion is an art, which requires respect and empathy, this is something that a lot of people forget, when they sometimes confuse sincerity with tactlessness and diplomacy when they speak or write. 

An important key to know how to say the things without being offensive is to gain the respect of each other. The easiest to lose this respect is to become a gossipy person who gives their opinions to everyone.

In response to varied circumstances it is necessary to be mature and in tune to others. Obviously, one learns this through the experience, (especially) when it is the time to shut up, to talk, to animate or to change the topic quickly.

When one is young one almost always wants to have a reason and one feels that the ego must prevail and be noted because one believes to be in a phase of the life where one wants to have a place, a position, however with the time one can see that small but powerful quibbling marks the difference between to be a good and reliable friend or a heavy person who nobody appreciates.


Tell us pleaseee!, Do you prefer to be sincere no matter if you are being offensive? or Do you prefer to be a little diplomatic at the time in response to some situation?

(that's mostly correct...)