‎"Why We Shout In Anger"

A Hindu saint who was visiting went to the River Ganges to take bathe in its holy waters. There was found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled 'n and asked smilingly, .

"Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?"

The disciples thought for a while., One of them answered said,

"'Because When we lose our calm, we shout."

"But, why should you the shouting when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say anything in a soft manner."

asked the saint

The disciples gave Some gave other answers but none satisfied all. the other disciples.
Finally the saint explained, .

"When two people are angry at each other, their hearts are at a distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able in order to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger louder they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that greater distance.  I prefer, "... to cover that ever increasing distance".

What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout not at each other but talk speak softly.  , Because Their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very close small..."

The saint continued,

"When in greater love?  they love each other even more, what happens then? They do not speak not softly but only in whispers;  'n they get for they are even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whispers are not even needed but looking at each other in silence. , they only look at each other 'n that's all. That This is how close two people they are when they are IN love each other."

He looked at his disciples and sighed, 'n said.

"So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Argue not that cause hearts to be distant. Speak no words to increase the distance.  Do not say words that distance each other more, Or else there will come a day For surely, the day will come when the distance is so great that you will not find not the path to of return."

Great story!  In Chinese, the vibration string. 知音.