Facebook effect --- 臉書效應

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今天,我同事跟另一個同事說,你兒子是不是失戀了? 因為他兒子在臉書上寫一段文字,感覺上有點難過,我這個同事說,她覺得難以接受,兒子居然談戀愛,她都不知道,而且也沒透露出他心情不好,居然是同事在臉書上發現,才得知這個消息,當下,她覺得她這個母親很失敗,我覺得這是很特殊的現象,在臉書上,你可以加你周遭的人,不管他是認識或不認識的,其至暢所欲言,但是面對最近的親人,反而隔著一道牆...

Today, I overheard a My co-worker told askinganother one today and asked " did your son fall out of love?" why his son lost his love. This is because she saw her son's sad comments on Facebook. This co-worker of mine said that she could not accept this fact because she did not know that her son was in love let alone talk about love.  His face never hinted of any sign.  some words on Facebook that was sad, the mother said she felt hard to accept this news,she didn't know when did he fall in love and can't tell from his face. She was surprised that she had to find (optional, "out this piece of news") on her colleague's Facebook page. She felt that she had failed as a mother.  I felt that this is a special case. She was told by co-worker that found it on Facebook unexpectedly,so she think that she failed to be a mother suddenely. I think it is a special situation! You can add everyone you like whether you realize them or not and say what you want. But when you face the closest families,it seems exist a wall... You can add anyone on Facebook to be your friends regardless if you know them; you tell them of your inner most thoughts and yet when it comes to those dearest to you, you are as blank as a wall.

Facebook effect --- 臉書效應

原文

今天,我同事跟另一個同事說,你兒子是不是失戀了? 因為他兒子在臉書上寫一段文字,感覺上有點難過,我這個同事說,她覺得難以接受,兒子居然談戀愛,她都不知道,而且也沒透露出他心情不好,居然是同事在臉書上發現,才得知這個消息,當下,她覺得她這個母親很失敗,我覺得這是很特殊的現象,在臉書上,你可以加你周遭的人,不管他是認識或不認識的,其至暢所欲言,但是面對最近的親人,反而隔著一道牆...

My co-worker asked another co-worker today, "did your son fall out of love?". My co-worker asked this because she saw a sad post on Facebook. The mother said she felt that it's hard accepting this news. My co-worker didn't know when the son fell in love and she couldn't tell from his facial expression. My co-worker was informed by another co-worker that unexpectedly found this post on Facebook. Therefore, my co-worker suddenly thought that she was a failure of a mother. I think that this is a special situation. On facebook, you can add everyone that you like whether you know them or not, and you can say whatever you want. However, when you face the closest family members of these people, it feels like there's a wall...