How What do you think [of this] ?

My baby is sleeping now...

I am checking internet and on the Internet / surfing the Web / online looking for something...
I am looking for the a X`mas special event or the a places with
beautiful illuminations lights? / scenery? to go spend with my family.

光？光景？
I hope I can see the a big, beautiful tree in the a clear sky
with them on X`mas day.
This is the first X`mas [I am having] with my family...

When I was in my 20s, the whole 20s, I was just thinking about me only only thought about myself.

If you already use the word "my" then want to talk about yourself again, use the word "myself".

Other examples:

1.  That was my idea to go to the beach!  I thought of it all by myself.

2. He is so selfish.  He only thinks of himself.

3.  They used the ladder to lift themselves out of the swimming pool.

I had many hobbies, good friends, and dreams for the future at that time.
I tried almost all that I wanted to do, because I could spend the time and money for myself, not for anyone.

Since all my time and money was only spent for myself, I was able to try almost everything I wanted.
What I did are, [For example] I traveled to some countries, and lived overseas/abroad for a while to enjoy
the life there, got a licence of for scuba diving, learnt salsa dancing, enjoyed snow boading, etc...
I had never thought I would have my own family,
because I really like to enjoy my time, enjoyed the time I gave myself and did not think that I would give them it up for somebody else.
#わ！正直の言葉ですね。今、僕は２１歳です。多分僕もわがままかもしれません。：｜

But, once when I turned reached my 30s, I happened to meet the person who would be my side forever.
Now my life has changed a lot.
I decided to use devote all my time for him and our baby.

"Devote" means that you give up something to benefit some other person because you love that person and want to help them out. 

It is a stronger way of saying "to give". Often, the verb devote is used with the noun time.

I gave up some time to clean my smelly dog（臭い犬）. *笑い*

I devoted some time writing a birthday card for my Mother.
Now after one year past since we got married, I never regret to give up those days when I was single.

We have been married for one year and I never regret giving up those days when I was single.
Because If I found remember something that I forget forgot to do or remember something that I wanted to do,
I still can do it with my family together in the future!

In Japan, some women even though turned 30s, 40s, they are still single, not like bofere that mid of 20s is the best of marriage.

In Japan, there are some women in their 30s and 40s who remain single.  This is different from the past, when many women married in their mid 20s.
Some people say that late marriage marrying late is not good for having if the woman wants to have children.
They also say that and it will be a bit more difficult to take care of the children if because you are she [the couple] is too old.
Actually, I know there is a physical limit of having a child physically, [at an older age].
but now more and more medical ways are developing in the world better medical technology is making this more possible.
And about taking care of child, there is more and more public facilities, so someone will help you to do it if necessary.

If you need help to take care of the children, there are now many more public facilities that can help you do so.

I think people enjoy their 20s fully, after done what they want to do, then getting married is not too late.

I think that if people remain single and fully enjoy their 20s, they can still be happy when they marry at a later age.  Marrying later won't be too late.
(I found one proverb: Who is contented, enjoys.)

How What do you think???

＃ az_hat-sanの英語で書いた文は難しいですけど素晴らしい努力しましたと思う。頑張ってください。

すみません両親だが僕は結婚したくない。はは。