Is it possible to have more social energy? We all know there are high and low energy personalities. Are we born this way or is it possible to become a high energy person? I do not mean body's energy that can be boosted by getting more sleep, reducing stress, exercising regularly, staying hydrated, etc. I mean how can one be a high energy person socially: happy to talk to people, want to socialize with others, looking to meet new friends, to be always ready to help others? How to be a more fun person to be around, organizing the exciting events, inviting to unusual places, cooking for guests, creating the surprises and doing nice tiny things for others? The answer seems to be: get out of the house as happiness comes to those who socialize and just start doing these small things for others in order to have more social energy. In everyday life we spend much time being surrounded by people at work, at the gym, at the transport, in the messengers and on social media. However, we do not actually do much for them, do not invest our real time and energy in realtionship with them. No effort. This might be the problem. I should try investing more and see what happens.