Personality Each person is different from each other. Everyone has their own personality and we can't be the same. In fact I hate different people's traits like lying, egotism, irresponsibility. I guess, that the main reason of these feelings is otherness in characters, worldview, upbringing or moral principles. In some cases, even good traits can be annoyed. For example, naivety, because If you appear this trait, people take advantage of you surely. The most desired traits for me is patience. I consider, that patient people are very wise. I am not a keeping control person. So, maybe I want to have patience, because it is my opposite trait. I'm sure, we can change our personality. There is a very suitable saying about it in English. He that dwells next door to a cripple will learn to halt. It means other people influence on us and we are changing. One more good saying is written in the Bible. "Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners." Here is a very interesting point, that we learn bad things or habits easier, than good ones. We can find out the same example in the nature. To grow a crop farmers have to make a great job spending a lot of time and power. On the other hand weed grow without somebody's helping. So, I think, that people are able to change their personality, but it is too hard to become better.