How to get over a relationship One of my ex boyfriend is getting married to one of my ex friend (ex friend= did I need to specify?). The news didn't surprise me and it did not have any "big" effect. I am surprised how much I grow up about this aspect: of course I still cry sometimes when I feel alone or when there is no more pizza in my plate, but this “why is life so hard?”-moment doesn’t take so much as before, so well done, Sara (I am leaving the teenager tunnel at the age of 27). I thought this kind of news could make me angry or envious, well I am e bit envious, but only of the situation: finding someone to get marry to, who doesn’t judge you even though He could know you ate 3 muffins in less than 15 minutes and then your heart started beating so fast so you were about to call the hospital, it’s not always easy (like eating 3 muffins and not die), and some people, maybe, can’t find the right person during their lives. When I found out there were dating, we stopped speaking, it was an unconscious decision. The last time I spoke to them was, yes, probably four or five years ago. I think they are a great couple, but, I mean, it’s not my business. Anyway, back to the important matter of this post: getting over relationships. When he dumped me, I lived that experience as a tragedy. I am a hopeless romantic girl. Too many Disney movies and Jane Austen books made me so romantic (even though if you see me at the train station in the morning with my grumpy face, you can’t believe I can have an heart). Every time a guy break up with me, it’s always a tragedy. I lived this kind of things like the end of the world. During the last years I tried to improve my reaction to this things and be more rational and remember that every time I was sad because I was dumped and thought I might be forever with cats, then I could find another guy and be happy with him (until he dumped me too, but it's a small detail). The lesson is: you can always move on. Of course it is not easy, because being negative is easier than being positive, and I understand that it’s pretty scared not knowing what it is going on in our lives. You can be positive and believe your friends when they tell you "don't worry, you will find someone when you stop looking for him", but every day, when you go to bed, you are still alone. We should just think that tomorrow is another day (and in Australia is already tomorrow). Maybe the love of our lives got lost and never meet us, but it could be worse, like no more pizza in our plates!