Divorcing infulence children grow up. Children who suffer psychological problems－such as trauma over their parents' divorcing－earn up to 30% less than others when they grow up, how does psychology explain it so far? Children would suffer long-term psychological illnesses cause by their parents' divorcing. It will influence children grow up. They can not be the same as the average child to focus on learning and making friends, and they will think the world is unfair to them. Thus, they are more likely give up when they come up against difficulties. Unfortunately, this psychological problems are very hard to cure. It can destroys kids' confidence, so children are always lose game when they compete with other children. In my conclusion, parents should more consider kids' feeling and fulfil their obligation. If they cannot do that, they should not have kids.