Love-1

When I was young, I thought love was easy. Just find someone you love and fall in love with her/him [understood.  This makes your sentence long winded] forever.When I grew up, after several wrenching experience, I was loved and betrayed, then I find realized that love is not easy at/after all. It is matters not just from your own feeling. It must come from is both sides and more.

Everyone is a judgeing when they are searching for love., judging by the Your appearance is judged; your status is judged and the fortune, and so too is your family... the families.......

And My friends told me I was am too picky; too idealistic; positive, and too simple simplistic. when I was in love, that This is why [or just replaced by "hence"] I can not cannot find love.  But However, sometimes it is just so tricky of your own feeling, your heart fools your mind.  Love comes and goes in silence.  But Never know who is the one who will stay/remain with you forever?