I am confused now.
Maybe I am too young to understand some principles of life. I know it's no necessary to change yourself to meet someone else,I mean become the one other people like.But when some people around you get hurt because of your behaviors and begin to dislike you even break up with you.No just one,some.You begin to think about yourself and want to change.But unfortunately,because of your own experience of being abandoned, you became to afraid, afraid being disliked and broken yp again like before,so you change,change,change,at last, you are not yourself.So you on earth should be youself or change yourself into a better one but you are not happy?
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thanks for your comment.I think I have a new view of that now.
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Tristam
I had a rather profound awakening when I realized that one of the tragedies of my own life,
was that all I did was try to "fit in" with others and have the "approval" of others.
I thought; "If only I can speak like others, dress like others, and act just like others act,
others will like me, and I will have "friends".
That was my folly. As it turned out, when I began to think of myself as a "different" kind of person than others, I found strength, comfort, and self-esteem.
I think this is true for other people sometimes. They should think less of having the acceptance of others, and regard it a great benefit, if others have our acceptance.
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As for me, I believe that we ought getting better and better with each new day and it has to get into the habit. I personally like changing and am happy about that. :) One can get better by learning new stuff, but changing one's character traits isn't the same; it's just not necessary, I think. ;)
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