Who Should Make The First Step In The Beginning Of A Relationship? ( Please Correct, Thanks A Lot)

Recently, one of my best friends, Yuan got confused, because she fell in love with her colleague Lu.
Precisely speaking, it is was more than of a secret love.
She talks tells with me on QQ, “I get hurt. He treats me like a common colleague.”
“This maybe because he does’nt know you have a crush on him. Why don’t you just go ahead and tell him about your feelings? ”
She questions, “what if he does’nt like me? Or even dislike me?”
I replied “honey, everyone likes you. You are smart and beautiful. So be confident.”
She argues, “if he likes me, he would come to me. It should be always boys come to girls.”
Then I get had nothing to say, because I totally agree with her point of that men should make the first move, but so I suggested that she could atleast give him a hint.
So good luck, my friend.
If a girl shows love to a boy, does he think that she is too open-mind?
最近，我的一位好姐妹袁很是困惑，因为她爱上了他的同事陆。
准确地说来，这是一场暗恋。
她在QQ上和我聊天说，“我觉得很受伤，他待我像普通同事一样。”
“这可能是因为他不知道你喜欢他。你为嘛不直接大胆地向他坦白心迹呢”
她反问我，“他要是不喜欢我怎么办？甚至讨厌我呢？”
我劝说：“亲爱的，每个人都喜欢你，因为你聪明漂亮，所以自信点啦。”
她争论到：“假如他喜欢我，他会来找我。不都是男人过来找女孩的吗？”
然后我就无话可说了，因为我完全同意她关于应该是男性迈出第一步的观点，但是我建议她可以给他暗示。
希望她好运。
假如是女孩向一个男孩表明心迹，男孩会不会觉得这个女孩太开放了？