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I am so troubled about my wife. she has a bad temper.it's made us quarreled frequently.it is almost the only reason,but the biggest. I can hardly beer it anymore. Is there somesone could tell me how to solve my problem.

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I am so troubled about by my wife.

She has a bad temper.__It's made us quarreled frequently.__It is almost entirely the only reason,but the biggest one.


I can hardly beer bear it anymore. Is there Can somesone could tell me how to solve my problem?


Before you married her? You didn't know her temper?  If you don't know, then love must be blind.  I guess you don't love her anymore and able to see her true self now.  If you do, you could tolerate her why not now?  Again your love is no longer there.


It takes two hands to clap.  I guess you are no longer 殷勤細心 anymore to her.  Change your attitude first.  Treat her as you had once set eyes on her the first time.  Have you been doing this for her lately?  Reflect and see what you have gone wrong first.  She's a human being.  She cannot change overnight so drastically.  You must have been neglecting her needs.


Yes, I am the devil's advocate.  She married you.  She must have loved you once upon a time unless she married you for your money etc.  I doubt it is so.  Give more attention to her and woo her like once upon a time you did.  I am sure things will change.  

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I am so troubled about my wife.

She has a bad temper and it's made us quarrel frequently.That is almost the only reason,but the biggest.
I can hardly bear it anymore.
Is there someone  who could tell me how to solve my problem?



I will give you a woman's point of view.Women rarely quarrel with their husbands/boyfriends for  no reason. Ask her what is troubling her. Be nice to her, pay her some attention, buy her some flowers, take her our for a meal. If that does not help I suggest that both of you go to see a counsellor. Your wife may be  ill/stressed/ depressed/ bored at home/overworked.

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It has been ten years.I look forward the next ten years. Maybe there is some problems on me that i didn't realized. My baby can't grow up without father ,and I can't live without my daughter. At list my wife did not tell my wrong everywhere. Everything will be alright. You are so kind persons.thank you and thankyou!
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Can you talk with her friends and ask about her? Did she had bad temper before you or not? Probably, you are guilty too, but you can't notice
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You're welcome, and yeah you should definitely try to talk to her when shes calm and in a good mood. I know how it is, my mom is like that she erupts without any warning, then after she smiles and acts like nothing is wrong. I hope you can get it figured out soon! And also if shes the kind of person who never talks and just argues and argues, maybe have someone close to the two of you try and talk to her...or maybe I know this will sound weird but write a letter to her. Another good think is not to argue back with her, give her space maybe and let her cool down. I dont know im just trying to help.

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