Modify your prayers We pray for wealth but don't pray to be generous love but don't pray to understanding the love one happiness but don't pray to get rid of ego baby but don't pray for their good fate success but don't pray to be humble (over) politicians to rule but don't pray for nation We pray whenever we think best but not pray what is good for us. That's why we get what we want but after getting it we sometimes feel things are going wrong. One common example of above is marriage. We like persons and pray to get married with him/her. But we forget about love is not alone that help your life to go on. There are many other things that should be cleared before living together. So be careful what you ask. Ask for everyone better thing that is good for you and for them. Happy sunday :-)