Hey, whether you are an angel or the most beautiful creation on the planet, people will still find something wrong with you.. So I think you should stop paying attention to what everyone else thinks or say about you and start practicing self-love and self-care... And yes, love will find you when you least expect it😍 so just hang in there

If by “attractive” you mean visually appealing, then I’d say that that it is not necessary. However, a person has to be attractive in some way — if a person is neither good looking nor pleasant to be around, they will not attract anyone — certainly not anyone attractive. On the other hand, if we’re talking about the love of a dog or an unattractive person, there is no need to be that attractive.

People can do lots of things to improve their looks, but good looks are not even necessary to be attractive — if one wants to be attractive, there is no excuse not to work on one’s inner beauty. An unattractive person (a person with no attractive qualities on the outside or inside) cannot reasonably expect to attract an attractive person.

By the way, Tammy, what makes you think you’re “unattractive”?

Tammy

Whatever people may have told you, you must know that most of us are pretty unattractive guys. We may be nice, sweet, clever, considerate, funny … still, most of us are not good-looking people. Also, you must know that most of the people we hang out with are unattractive, quite ugly if I dare. My friends, for example, they may well be nice, funny, kind, open-minded, … have lots of qualities. Still, I’ve to admit most of them are clearly unattractive. My relatives? Pretty the same!

In spite of all this, we are loved and we love all these people around. And we have a quite decent life. And it must be so, because, you know, outside a lucky minority, most of humans are unattractive. Still, most of humans make their own path through life, and yeah, they find their path fairly satisfying overall.

So, do you find yourself unattractive? We kindly welcome you among us 90% of humans. Now, stir yourself. The world is ours! 

Hey Tammy!

First, I think there are different perceptions of "being attractive" because it depends on the person! And also people change their mind as well! For example, when I was younger I used to like "attractive men" (for me) I used to focus on their apperance only. But as the time went on, I changed my preferences and other characteristics are more important for me than physical apperance.

To sum up, do not give up and work on you own self steem! When you stop looking for someone who love and you begin building up your self-steem, You will find the perfect person for you!

:)

The beauty of a woman Is not in the clothes she wears,

The figure that she carries, Or the way she combs her hair. 

The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes,

Because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. 

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, 

But true beauty in a woman Is reflected in her soul. 

It is the caring that she lovingly gives, 

The passion that she shows, 

And the beauty of a woman

With passing years only grows.

Author: Audrey Hepburn