About me. This probably sounds too direct, but if you are a woman, I need to be really clear about a few things. I am kind and gentle, but please do not misunderstand this as romantic interest. I am very married. Obviously I have to write this because it has been a problem for me in the past, and I need to avoid anyone being hurt. work: I manage computers running control systems for a power company. hobby: In my scant free time, I build electronics, woodwork projects, watch movies.