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Never Miss?
Being a human, we are born to make a mistake. Some of us are just careless or lousy or even incapable to do certain things. Then, we began to learn from the surroundings such as observing how other people do better than us and start questioning how to be better than them. Sometimes, they are often very nice towards us, putting their attention to how we settle things and give negative feedback. As I said, this is negative which is bad. Actually, this does not literally bad if we think further.
As an example, considering how much time they spend to monitor us and see how we do, this is already a prize from them. They also take their time to express comments about us and make sure that we do not get hurt by their personal opinion or argument. In other way, they can also yell at us for what we have done incorrectly. So, how do we response against this? It is then depends on us, by doing introspection.
Introspection is like seeing at the mirror to make our physical appearance look nice which most of us do before leaving our house or even our room. Instead of physical appearance, introspection is for our mindset. It is to correct how we behave towards negative comments and turn them to positive. In many cases, we start by admitting that we make a mistake and accepting their negative comments are intended for our goodness. By thinking this way, we are able to correct about ourselves and turn into a better person, but again we might still miss something in the future and the people will find what we have been missing out.
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Best Friend between Opposite Gender, is it possible to maintain when we have partner?
Once upon a time, we appear to be met by fate either we are childhood friend, having the same hobby or even met at the street randomly. Anyway, it can happen more than we think. In some extent, we might look like a couple but actually we are not, we just respect each other and we know our limit or not going that far to be in a relationship. We might have some affection but it is not enough to go that far. We might encourage at some point but not really demanding until we are feeling under pressure. However, unlike best friend between same gender, if we have partner in the future, our partner will not get jealous.
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Real Friends or They Want Something Else from Us
It is very hard to find a real friend. They might just come to us and pretend to be warm and caring. Without any negative thinking, of course we respond that naturally. After sometime, we just found out that they have their own intention upon us. We, thinking ourselves as what we are, believe our friendship is genuine. Day after day, they show their true intention of asking a big favour which we cannot fulfil. Knowing that they will not get anything from us, they leave us as if this is only wasting time. To begin with, we always have our own ego and it often drives us into difficult situation. If we can keep away our ego to minimum, that is where we can understand real friendship and its importance.
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First notebook entry: Introducing myself
I like most of Japan aspect, the people, the culture, food, anime so learning Japanese speaking will be no exception for me.
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