Be strong. Nomatter what happens, you've got yourself as the best teacher and psychologist. You don't know what a power you have inside. In fact you don't need any help in your life, except your own. Sometimes you hear the voice of intuition, it says what you need to do and what not to. You just should be witty enough to identify it to make useful desicion. Actually, you have all resources for making real any your dream and the only thing you really need is just to believe it. I'm not talking about something unreal, grabing millions or so on, I'm talking about real aims. If you want to be able to do something you should care about your mental health, you should clear your mind from negative states, it's really important, not less important than our physical health. So, the only person, who can help you in any situation is you and you should be in friendly relationships with yourself .So, as you understand, I'm talking about a harmony.

Please, help to correct. In my hard times you come into my dreams ( sleeps) and support me. What a joke? Since what time our main sources of pain do that? I could think that it looks like a fate, but we both know that fate can't be so ridiculous.

People around you You may not believe in fate, but nothing happens without a reason. As well as nobody comes into your life without a reason. Some people make you suffer and it makes you stronger. Every person you met in your life was there to give some experience to you. All of them were present to teach you, some of them showed the example of being a human you don't want to be, some of them inspired you for doing something you always was afraid of, some of them stayed with you and support you being your friends. People around you make your personality, they make you the person you should be.

Just for... Sometimes it's difficult to be yourself, not to forget about your own way. There are so many sources of information around us and to some extent it influence on you, sometimes you lose control, sometimes you can't find your place in this world. But it's very important always to be yourself, to be confident about your principles. Don't let someone manipulate you and your life. Only you know what do you need inside your heart, just listen to it and in this case your life will be the one you are supposed to have.

Life isn’t about finding yourself, life is about creating yourself What do you think about such an expression « Life isn’t about finding yourself, life is about creating yourself»? I ’m absolutely agree with that. You are the only person responsible for your life. And here appears the question about believing in fate. Do you believe in fate? I think that there are things which are predicted to us and there are things we take under our control. So, I think it is 50 % to 50%. There is always something we can change for better, we can just try to, if we are not managed to do that, so it means it is our fate and of course, it happened for better ( for good in the future). Still, we can always create ourselves and use this 50% fully. I don’t think there is need to give up, because we can create our destiny by ourselves, for doing that, we should be more confident. I am so sorry when I see the desperate person, who doesn’t believe in his abilities and let his life to crush down. I just wanted to say – be more confident about yourself, you are much more stronger, than you think.

Feelings I like this feeling, which comes after a despair, I call it "freedom". When you reconciled with the things you couldn't change, when you finally got it. When you finally realized that there was nothing to worry about, because it's not under your control anymore. When you let yourself keep walking your way.And after loosing despair and the paind it caused you feel empty a little bit, but it's exactly a freedom.

Please, just correct it if there are mistakes. No matter how old I am, I’m like a child, I’m still enjoying color of the sky, I’m still dreaming all the moments, all the time. I’m still in love, like I don’t know what pain is, Like I never failed, because that’ all my needs. I’m stubborn like a child, Sometimes I can’t forget about the things I left behind, Sometimes I want to climb too high. I’m like an adult child, Because I always did everything in my life by myself, But, anyway, I’m always ready to help. I’m like a strong child, Because there was nobody who could support me, but I always could. So, I’m a lady with a masculine heart, and that’s for good. But I’ll always be a child inside, I’ll never stop rejoicing too much, Or believing there is something magic we can touch. That’s all me, that’s I am. With believing in good I can overcome everything, yes, I can.

How should I say it? If I want to say " I'm admiring by some person". May I express it exactly like that or there must be another variant? Maybe there is a need of using "with" instead of "by" or what?)