Education system Hi My name is idrees. I am inspired by learning about the education system in Finland . I wish to replicate this in my country INDIA. I am looking for people who can help me learning more about it and who can guide me making this change possible. There is no private school in FINLAND. All govt. School are of same standard. So there is no hunt for best school. Kids get no homework. Max. 10 to 20 mins if required. They let kids be kids allowing them to do and encourage what they like. Rich or poor have to go to same school. They teach kids how to be happy. Only 20 hours a week study time and rest is fun time learning life skills. It all sounds so amazing to me. I wish if I could make this a reality in India. Now a days private schools are ruling and only rich kids get quality education. This is so heart breaking millions of kids doesnt get chance what they deserve. I need guidance and support of people who are like minded. Thank you

Connection with 23 in my life Hi Hope you all are doing well. I am 23 born & most of my close friends are of same date. My marriage was arranged by my parents & to my surprise my wife also of same date. There are many other instances i come accross this number, like first time i went to a movie with my wife we got one of the seat no. 23, first time in bus got 23 seat. First time family outing 23 date etc etc I find it amazing all these coincidence in my life Would love to know all of your thoughts on this ? Do anyone else experience the same ?

What can we do to make our society a better place to live in?

I think it's very important we talk about things which can bring a positive change in society. 

We spend a lot of time talking about things which are no good or not beneficial in any way. 

As a community we should take initiatives to make people aware about the problems of weaker sections of the society and think of ways ofimproving their condition. 

I think one of the ways we can help is by changing the way we celebrate happy occasions. We should start a new trend to celebrate by helping people in need instead of arranging parties. Some of the people are already doing things like this but we need to come forward as a majority to make a diffrence. We should create an environment where nobody is ignored. 

We should regularly visit old age homes and hospitals and provide assistance in whatever way we can. 



What do you think are other ways which can bring this change in society?

What can we do to make our society a better place to live in ? I think it's very important we talk about things which can bring a possitive change in society. We spend a lot of time talking about things which are no good or not beneficial in any way. As a community we should take initiatives to make people aware about the problems of weaker section of the society and think of ways improving their condition. I think one of the way we can help is by changing the way how we celebrate happy occasions. We should start new trend to celebrate by helping people in need instead of arranging parties. Some of the people are already doing like this but we need to come forward in majority to make a diffrence. We should create an environment where nobody is ignored. We should regularly visit old age homes and hospitals and provide assistance in whatever way we can. What do you think of other ways which can bring this change in society ?

Life lesson, some people pretend to be good to use our emotion for their benefit I used to be very quiet person in office. Mostly i would be busy in office with whatever work is assigned to me and not used to join in fun conversation with colleagues. If someone calls me then only i would turn, respond and get back to work. I feel good if anyone ask me for help and never feel irritated. Once there was a new joinee in our team who became very close friend in very short time. He used to offer me help financially without even me asking him and spend from his pocket whenever we go out. I used to return his favours through someway or the other and whenever he helped me with money i used to return on time. Once he asked me for help, i didn't have money but still i arranged by swiping my credit card not expecting it back and he returned on time. So this way my trust became stronger, we did many transactions like this and he used to always return my money on time. It was time for his marriage and he was travelling to india but he told me his loan got approved but its taking time for the amount to be credited. He asked me to help him by swiping my credit card and he would return once he get the loan amount in his account. So i trusted him but he never returned and later i came to know he took money from two of my colleagues as well and loan from bank. My financial situation was not good and it became worse after this. I was not able to send money back home to my family due to bottle neck payments for a year. I have learned we should never stop helping people but should help only with amount we can forget and should not affect us to fullfill our primary responsibilities. No matter how close we are to the person help only if you have cash (never with credit cards) and never expect in return, if they return its good if not should be manageable.

I cannot accept this behaviour If you have a problem with me lets discuss, I cannot accept your silent behaviour. I think its not good in any relation to keep silent for anything they didn't like or didn't happen the way they expected. Sometimes we make mistakes unknowingly but it hurts the other person and in response to that they keep silent. I think we should not accept this behaviour as it make the relation more weak. What do you think is the best way to deal with people who choose to be silent.

If you have a problem with me lets dicuss i cannot accept your silent behaviour I think its not good in any relation to keep silent for anything they didn't like or didn't happen the way they expected. Sometimes we make mistakes unknowingly but it hurts the other person and in response to that they keep silent. I think we should not accept this behaviour as it make the relation more weak. What do you think is the best way to deal with people who choose to be silent.