Why I'm single I've been single for 5 years and Taiwanese people always said "you are too picky" after they've known it. Yes,I'm picky and of course I have to be picky because I need someone who really likes me a lot and has patience to be with me. Guys don't care about how many in common between their girls and them, but girl do care about it, and I care about this a lot! I've not been looking for any relationships initiatively in these years, I'd like to let this go with the flow. Feeling at ease with yourself when you alone is the most important thing in the life.