life lessons It was unusual at first to write my memories in English language, but I'm getting used to it . Some times , even though you are between your family and having alot of friends next to you , however you are still feel lonely.  Lonely doesn't mean that you have no friends or family , it's mean when you don't find a person beside , understand and feeling you without  asking . I often imagine if I met a strange person in my way just to tell what inside my soul then left to our way. But the truth is  : you will not find a good friend for you better than yourself . Friendship with oneself not ridiculous  , its important because no one knows yourself better than you . Express your emotions , write your feeling , what hurts and pleases you , your likes and dislikes , your strength points and weaknesses points , what do you want from life . Writing is a window to your self , good way to express feelings , so keep a journal every day. Reward yourself rather than waiting for someone else to do it  , for example I reward myself with a cup of coffee, some of flowers and sometimes by dancing with a Colombian songs lol .  So , be your own best friend , the one of the Arab  philosophers said : " Don't depend too much on anyone in this world because even your own shadow leaves you when you are in darkness" . notes : I hope to correct my mistakes.