My first female language partner I signed up on Italki on last january, since then just men talk to me. I don't have problems with it, actually I have made really good contacts by Italki. Although I sometimes have bad experiences with some guys. Because that I started to look for female language partners. I found a girl that is learning portuguese and lives in NY city (actually she found me) who has became my favorite language partner. I'm glad that I didn't give up.