If you need to start everthing all over again,what methods will you use to adjust your state? I heard a saying"life is to start again". I guess I can put this statement in a lot of different situations. I learned how to speak Japanese few years ago,but I forget too many Japanese words now. I have to start prounce the basic words from the very begining. I thought what I learnt from university would be very useful but when faced real work issues, I didn't know a thing.I had to gain new experiences by working for a period of time. If a person finish a realationship with a man or a woman, it will always be a fresh start to date another person because he/she can be so different. The method I used is simple,try my best to bear the shocking feelings about the facts and keep remind myself sometimes this is what life all about. But I can't adjust my state very well everytime.I would love to hear some new great methods here.

Is it hard to balance work and language learning? One of my friends hates to learn a new language so slowly. She said it is so hard to learn a language at night without the speaking environment or someone to spesk to after a long daytime work. What do you think?

There are a lot of French words prounce like English words, how to remember those words without confusion? When I'm learning French, a lot of words sound just like English words but with different meanings. How to separate those words and remember those? please share your learning tips toward this problem.

Any Chinese learners feel Chinese is harder than other Asia languages? Are Chinese words have more strokes or meanings in your opinion?