About my future Yesterday my mom told me she want me to take part in the TOEFL examination,that means,if i get a good grade,i can go to America to study.Many Chinese students went to America by this way,because they cannot do well in school's tests,have more pressure about the college entrance examination or they have a gift for English studying. But Chinese people think go to aboard before the college entrance examination is evading the examination and they think if a person go to aboard to study after he finished the study in Chinese college,he will get more success.It's ture.This talk is so important to me because it can change my life.I'm the meddle in my class but i want to get progress.but I also want to get rid of the simple life in China. I'm so confused about it and dont know what to do:(

Should I learn English by listening,writing or doing parpersfirst? I found however hard I try,I cannot get progress in English learning. I'm so confused,should I improve my Englishby listening,writing,chating or doing parpers? I really want to get some progress,canyou help? Thanks a lot^_^