My experience with language partners<o:p></o:p>
In 2016 I’ve made a concerted effort to speak with people of italki everyday. It’s been an interesting experience. I’ve sent out many, many invitations to members & I receive a response about 50% of the time. Of those respondents I have actual conversations with about 1/3 of the people. I’ve averaged about 3 hours a day speaking with people so it’s been very useful, albeit time consuming. In the end I’ve been very lucky to find about 8 people that I can speak with every week, some twice a week. But it takes many, many invitations to get to that point.<o:p></o:p>
What I’ve found is that not all language partners work out. There are incompatibilities in language levels, interests, seriousness & punctuality. It’s very difficult to have a conversation with someone who is very new & can’t carry on a simple conversation in their target language. I’m not a teacher & while I can correct errors, I cannot teach a raw beginner grammar. In my opinion a person should have a base knowledge of the language before attempting a conversation. The easiest conversations are those where both parties contribute ideas/questions/answers. It simply doesn’t work if one person wants the other to do all of the heavy lifting and control the entire conversation. I have also found that many people treat punctuality as something that is reserved for other, more important parts of their lives. They say that they’ll talk at 4:00pm on Saturday but if something better comes along they’ll do that instead. All it takes is an advance message to let the other person know they can’t make it. Often they won’t ever respond again after a missed conversation. I assume they’re embarrassed or they don’t want to deal with a potential conflict. It’s a shame really because I understand that busy lives can interfere & all it takes is a little communication to move on.<o:p></o:p>
If you want to find a language partner I suggest the following:<o:p></o:p>
- State your language level in your profile. Whether you are a beginner or have an advanced level you should let others know<o:p></o:p>
- Contribute to the website through discussions, answer questions etc. It allows others to see that you are serious & what your level is in your target language. It also pinpoints areas that you need to work on<o:p></o:p>
- Send invitations to people that say more than “Hi, how are you?” Write something in your target language, something that includes what you hope to get out of the contact & what you can provide to the other person<o:p></o:p>
- Show up when you say you’ll chat or send a message explaining that you will be late or cannot make it.<o:p></o:p>
In the original version of italki you could choose to see only discussions that had a site rating of >=0 or all discussions regardless of the rating. Now I notice that if members vote down a discussion to the point that it's overall rating is <0 you can no longer see it on the page of current discussions. If you have commented within the discussion it will show up under "My commented discussions" but otherwise you have to search through your internet browsing history to find it. Seems like a step backward to me.
Unless I'm just unable to see where the user can choose the setting to view "all discussions".
Here's a method to consider. I am reading the book by Gabriel García Márquez called "El coronel no tiene que le escriba". You can read the spanish version here:
http://www.literatura.us/garciamarquez/coronel.html
See a translated (English) version here:
http://studentstt.yolasite.com/resources/No%20One%20Writes%20to%20the%20Colonel%20-%20Gabri.pdf
Hear the audio of the book (Spanish) very clearly spoken here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXOFy3FrKJ0
And watch the movie here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W0TS5-q-IbQ
So I read a couple of pages in Spanish & while I'm reading it, I write what I think the English version would be on a Word document. Then I read the same section in the English book & see how I did, learning new words as I go. Then I listen to the audio of that section while looking at the Spanish book (or not). And then I watch the same section of the movie.
It can be slow & ponderous but in the end I figure I'll be able to simply watch the movie & understand it.
I'm not suggesting you accept poor grammar from yourselves but you should give yourselves a break. Watch any North American tv show that includes real people, average folks speaking without a script, and you'll quickly realize that proper grammar is a rarity rather than the norm. Quite often I hear English that hurts my head trying to understand why they are phrasing things the way they are, and trying to decipher the actual meaning.
And writing skills are equally dismal. The whole "there they're their" issue is just the tip of the iceberg. As I learn Spanish I am constantly confronted with basic issues like bien vs bueno, things that average English speakers have no clue about in their native language. It makes me see that these details are important for a language learner but you certainly won't stand out as an idiot if you don't master them.
So take heart & work towards improving yourself but realize that you're probably aware of more language/grammar/spelling issues than the average English speaker.
I've been studying Spanish for a little over a year now & have found some pretty good resources on the net. I've compiled a list of them here & grouped them by purpose. Hope they can be of help to others. Feel free to offer your own suggestions.
Studying:
A site to see verb conjugations
http://www.123teachme.com/spanish_verb_conjugation
Google translate. Not the best, but a reasonable starting point for understanding new vocabulary.
https://translate.google.com/#es/en/practico
An amazing site with tons of Spanish resources for all levels.
http://www.podcastfromspain.com/recursos-spanish-resources/
A ton of tests & quizzes on various subjects.
http://iteslj.org/v/s/
A huge resource of Spanish lessons complete with quizzes & answers.
http://users.ipfw.edu/jehle/S210.HTM
The best set of books I've found for learning Spanish is Gramática de uso del español. I have found some downloadable PDF files for this series of books but the files are difficult to read so I decided to buy the book I was using. They have an A1-A2, B1-B2, C1-C2 and A1-B2 book but the only book I've used is the C1-C2. It includes lessons & information that I haven't found anywhere else on the net or in other books. Really good stuff.
Listening:
A series of conversations spoken in Spanish. You choose the level and subject matter. A good way to hear the language.
http://www.laits.utexas.edu/spe/index.html
In this site you can listen to Spanish speakers and then try to write what you have heard. Compare what you have written with the actual text. There are also tests and conjugation exercises.
http://www.listeningpractice.org/dashboard.php
Reading:
Books, books, books. If you want to read Spanish books, or listen to them, this is a good resource
http://albalearning.com/
Create an account on this site & you can download up to 35 books to sample the site. The books are small (13 pages or so) and if you choose the highest level, they’re pretty good practice.
https://www.readinga-z.com/translations/spanish/leveled-books/
Here’s a site to read news in Spanish. Choose the reading level. Most articles are followed by quizzes with answers.
http://www.practicaespanol.com/noticias/
Watching:
Destinos. A set of videos of a story about a reporter working for a dying man. There are 52 episodes that get increasingly advanced. Includes grammar quizzes.
http://learner.org/series/destinos/watch/ep1/
Extra en Español. This is like Three’s Company in Spanish. It’s available on youtube, pretty cheesy but still ok.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dfb9-ZTCA-E
Videos of everyday Spanish speakers being interviewed on the streets on various subjects.
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLA5UIoabheFMo9oB_AF7JftV34ecOalvM
A rough coated, dough faced, thoughtful poughman, strode through the streets of Scarborough. After falling into a Slough, he coughed and hiccoughed.
The bandage was wound around the wound.
The farm was used to produce produce.
The dump was so full that it had to refuse more refuse.
We must polish the Polish furniture.
He could lead if he would get the lead out.
The soldier decided to desert his dessert in the desert.
Since there is no time like the present, he thought it was time to present the present.
At the army base, a bass was painted on the head of a bass drum.
When shot at, the dove dove into the bushes.
I did not object to the object.
The insurance was invalid for the invalid.
There was a row among the oarsmen about how to row.
They were too close to the door to close it.
A buck does funny things when does are present.
A seamstress and a sewer fell into a sewer.
To help with planting, the farmer taught his sow to sow.
The wind was too strong to wind the sail.
After a number of Novocain injections, my jaw got number.
Upon seeing the tear in the painting I shed a tear.
I had to subject the subject to a series of tests.
How can I intimate this to my most intimate friend?
I spent last evening evening out a pile of dirt.
I understand that there are valid reasons why some people don't like video and prefer audio only. Personally I find that I understand the words much quicker, I learn better & it turns out there may be a good reason. Our brains do a lot of the work that we think our ears are doing.
This video says it all. It's really amazing...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=FefFfvriAwQ
