Not comfortable with this Not sure on how to do this since it's not a note I'm submitting for review/help. This is something I need to say since it's been bothering me since I joined. I think I'm closing my account here. There is a subject to be addressed here. The site either needs their own messenger that's either just voice message or voice/video. From the moment I joined, I felt happy to have people trying to help me by sending me requests, but just in these past two days, I've received at least 10 messages that say something like "Hello, give me your Skype". I find this not only annoying, but intrusive and in some instances, aggressive. I just had a guy that told me to go... Well, you know just because I wouldn't give him my Skype username. Yes, we come from different cultures and I've tried to be as patient and understanding as possible, but I can't help feeling many users are treating the site as their own free Match.com and I can't speak about the rest, but that's not what I had in mind when I signed up. So I would describe my experience as a great fiasco. I hope the rest have found a way to find people that are serious about trying to help. But for me, it just doesn't work. Hope it works for you and best of lucks, F