Lonely I had met a korean friend coincidently before ,then we became friends. He said many things impressed me a lot and the most one is from the conversation below: "I watch the movies on computer". "why don't you watch them in the cinema?"I questioned. "Because no one watch it together with me " he telled the true casually. I was so shocked by his answer, because it is the first time I listened one would admit  he or she has no company under no stress. In my experience, if one tell me his or her lonely experience seriously , this means the one has trusted in me, which is very difficult to be earned.  Because the condition of relationship, to some extent, equates with ones success. Thus, if you said so, you may be looked down by the listener if he or she is not a kind person. For this reason, while I listened that korean saying so, a sudden idea that their lives are easier came to me,because they need not pay many attention on their words and have a heart with  more security. I still remember , in one afternoon when I was high school student, I felt confused for everything, laying on a long sofa. My mother seemed to understand  the reason of my formless eyes, then she told me, in your following  life, you have only yourself, you should better keep this in mind . I was very angry because I think I have so many friends, it is impossible that I will be alone.  However, in this school term, I have a new roommate which changes my opinion. My roommate is a very sociable and beautiful girl who has much more friends than me. As we getting closer, she has told me her  lonely past.For example, because of knowing few friends in the beginning of arriving in Chengdu, she can only enjoy some lovely restaurant alone. the more she shared her experience and the time I live with her, the more I can understand my mother's word. After a more insight of this question, I understand more why even I was companied I felt lonely