I am confused about the question of "what is the most important thing(s) in our lives?"
maybe the dreams belong to ourselves? but sometimes our dreams are conflict with the wishes our families have on us, if we want to pursue our dreams our families may be hurt which I don't want to meet,or we give up our dreams and are arranged everything, then live the way wished by all the paople but ourselves,and since so, we can't live a happy life.
There are two ways placed in front of me, one is the way my families are happy except for me; the other is I am happy but my families are sad for some time or even the rest of my life, I don't want to get the sorrowful result.
I really don't know how to do to balance the two things.what will you do if you are in the embarrassing situation? I want some ideas.
Thank you!
