I agree with Anny sometimes choosing your better half does take some time. I'm married and I'm 21 years old. I got married when I was 19. Everyone does say "Wow, that's too young" or "Was it a shotgun wedding (meaning a quick marriage because of preganancy)", but none of these are the case. I love my husband very much. We've been married for one year and known each other for five years. Many people ask me "How did you know that he's the one?" I always tell them "When I couldn't see myself with anyone else but him." Some people think our marriage won't last because we got married at an early age. I don't believe that at all, I see myself with him when we are 70 years old until we die. Things change in years and if our marriage don't last, I won't regret marrying him because I'll count the happy years for what they're worth. I rather live than regret!

I don't like when my bf very frequently says : I love you. I think true love can't be expressed through the words. And I also think that 20-22 is too early for the marriage. Sure, I want to get married. And if those person who was my bf after many years of our dating would not say me "marry me" , we will let us part. And choosing your better half sometimes is a very long process.

Hahaha. All men are like that. Grow up.