Both situations that you described will cause some disappointment for you. There is a third possibility. Wait until you find someone who loves you as much as you love them. Then the love between you will be shared by both of you - you both win - and no one will be disappointed.

It depend on you ,My advice is that you jump both of them. And I think there will be someother possbilty.both love you and the one you love.

Dump both of them!

It is better to love , then to be loved. To accept love from the person you do not love is the most unpleasant thing in the world. You should not be afraid to suffer from non-shared love. It is the most fabulous feeling !

yesterday was talking with a girl suffring from this situation:) she ask me the same qeuestion of you now i advice her to choose the one who loved her the other even she loves him but he didnt so one day he will leave her not like the one he loves her ;) i wish i help u