I think we need to concentrate on the present, if we work hard on HERE AND NOW we have more chances in the future to be wherever we want to be... I can't speak about me loving the same guy after 30 years, but I could say things about me doing the best I can for that relationship RIGHT NOW and tomorrow I'll know I did it great yesterday, and I have to whole day to do the same again... YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW... that's not a lie at all !! =)

Old entry.. but I should leave a comment.. People talk of fear of commitment, but I do not believe this, I think it is a fear to commit to the wrong person. It is difficult to know what your ideal type is.. especially if you do not know yourself well. We are human.. filled with emotions that take us for a ride like a roller coaster. We want and need different things in our lives at different times.. I think we all would like to have a partner who is versatile.. can lead when you need to be guided.. can follow when you are in control. Many people make the mistake by setting limits or "standards" and if a person does not fit neatly into that box they are automatically ruled out. You never know about a person and what their potential could be if you only see within a few feet in front of you. My last thought.. you should not rush to find a true love.. just like you are searching for that love, they are searching for you with the same anxiety.. Explore the world.. meet people.. have fun, but be safe.. the key is.. to be patient.. Love the entry.. Take care!!

i hope that woman will just remain the one i loved before!!!

This is one of the few times I agree with Jennifer. Thumbs up for her. :)

Absolutely, I have done so at least 5 times. ha ha ha... the question is, can a woman love with the same commitment?