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why people are so jelous?? i don't know why my boyfriend it's too jelous..i can't speak without other guys and i must only go out with woman..i know he loves me...it's so nice boy but sometime he don't understand me...i can't wear short skirt ..but it's summer is very hot..i really like them...last night we were in a club and a guy that i know speak with me ...i don't know why my bf start to speak loud with him and then he hit him....i feel very sorry for this guy...i don't speak whit my bf since these night...i want he understand..it's not a good behaviour......thanks guys for the advices...i really think he love me but what happened last night.....schocked me..my friend only speak with me..so i hope it s only a single episode..

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Wow... Kittie !!!! ( cats are mean these days !!! ) Listen sweetie... nope, not a good behavior !!! It just shows a lack of confidence. You don't even have to stop in the thought of if you have to try to change him or not... because I'm gonna give you a quick shorcut here : It's not going to happen, If he is insecure, It's because of him , not you... so he is the one that has to "fix it", not you. What you really really really have to figure out is if you see this kind of conduct and the feeling resulting of this situation as something productive in YOUR life. And then, maybe, you will find your answer =) Good Luck !!!!!!!!! ^^
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Sorry, your boyfriend is abusive. Jennifer & Maidhc gave some good advice, and Maidhc's not exaggerating when he said you may be the next one your boyfriend hits. The jealousy is his problem only, and you don't ever have to put up with it. There are thousands of guys out there who will never behave as badly as your boyfriend has. Jealousy is not normal! You might like to look through this site: http://au.reachout.com/find/articles/an-abusive-relationship (We all moonlight as Agony Aunts here.) ;)
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Leave him. There's no reason you should have to put up with that. If he hits a male friend of yours just for talking to you, you might be the next target of his misdirected anger. He's totally insecure. He doesn't trust you. Sounds like he has some emotional/mental baggage from the past. It could also be that he's trying to control you or the relationship. I would quit now while you're ahead. You need a man that will cherish & adore you; not control and obsess over you. Plenty of other guys out there, sister! :)
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your boyfriend is an arrogant moron whether you decide to stay with him or not, this will be your own evaluation of your own worth IMHO girl dating with a moron is dumb you decide for yourself whether to be dumb or not
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Because he cares u too much.He want you be the only one who he put in the bottom of his heart .So he has some regulation to u.If u can ,you should have a chat with him and tell him what is your real feeling about this situation. If he loves you very much ,he would rather understand u and change his mind a little...

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