Focus on NOW ... this is what you have, the present. Stop worrying about the future because while you are doing it you are wasting your "here and now", and if you think about it, each step you take TODAY is going to build your future anyways. Making plans is ok, but the present is what really matters. :-)

Ha ha ha. You need a sense of humour to understand that one, honey.

it means "計劃永遠趕不上變化'" the surrounding between us is changable that we can never thought about . even if we prepared lot bcause life is always changing .... you dont know what you are going to face next "change"'can meas people. money.policies.....and so on .....:D

计划赶不上变化