Well, I think I'm in charge of whatever I choose to feel ... so, to be honest Im never "very very angry" , I normally start to feel the anger and then BUM ! I prefer to stop, come on !!! its my liver who's suffering ... =p

"What can you do if someone makes you very angry?" I find the best way to deal with this is to remain calm and say, "I understand what you are saying. I don't have time to talk about this right now. Why don't we talk about it tomorrow?" Unless you remove yourself from this situation you may do something you regret.

I think it depends on who made you feel angry For example, if my mother did something make me feel angry ..i must surely reject this anger categoriclly ..and if a child make me feel angry i will try to understand because it certainly did not mean to make me feel angry .. and if SOMEONE else make me feel angry he Will wake up and find himself breathing through a tube in his mouth < just joking .. But I think we all agree that anger must be curbed in any way and There are many ways for this .. Because it will not harm the person who angered me, necessarily, but it will harm me in the end .. thank u for ur question ( shaima ) :)