Hi... you are on the right track here because you are questioning yourself! This is the right thing to do... perhaps you need to concentrate your efforts differently... or select few priorities first...

I find that is you have some reasonable goals in life, you can achieve what you set out to do.

I would think about the reason why it is not going according to plan. Than I would question whether my goals are right. If they are I would try to find a different approach that might work better. Or a countermeasure that might help me with my problem. If I know a person who is knowledgeable about my kind of troubles I would consult them. But for most purposes you usally know the answer yourself, it might not be something you like to do. But in the end effort in the right direction will pay off.

I can't help but find myself feeling alone more often that I would like. You just need to get a good friend that you can talk to about all of your problems. Someone who will actually listen to you. http://www.chooseafamily.com/feeling-alone.php

dr rana if i try to answer ur question . my asnwer wil be the question its clear already u became alone and ur life is not going as u like then u should find someone accompany with u and share ur lifes with u ( marry ) then i hope everthing will be alright