Maybe you mean that you would like to reassure your mother about your choices. She is perhaps concerned about the direction you wish to take your life? If that is the case, I suggest you show responsibility in all that you do: tell the truth, keep your promises, and be calm in explaining the reasons you have for your choices. This will build trust that you need to develop in your mother's mind. Please understand that parents are terrified that bad things may happen to their children, and your mother needs reassurance that you have thought carefully through your decisions. Keep an open mind (as you wish your mother to do). In disagreements with your mother, when you are wrong, be thoughtful; when you are right, be gracious. Act as if you are an adult in difficult circumstances.

Hi Maylany, as you are 16, my advice would be to try to get her to talk to you, so you need to find out what really is bothering her. Every morning ask her what she is going to do for the day. Ask questions. You will know straight away if she is listening because she has to answer you. Try not to annoy her.Offer to help her. Then at the end of the day, ask how her plans went. Eventually you will start to find out what her reasons are for not listening to you and you can work on it from there. Then she will listen to your desires and choices. Maybe she has been thinking that you wouldn't be interested in her opinions even though she has a lot of experiences in life. I think it's great that you are trying to communicate with her, you sound like a good daughter. Good luck I hope that she listens to you.

Hello Maylany , How to tell her or ensure her? I am not sure about the meaning of your question .