what can I do to find him?
I don't know what's problem with me. when he come, I hurt him. when he go, I hurt myself, what did I do? actually I a little know that I like him. But now he leave and cann't come back? what should I do? Or just let him go. Then everybody happy....I very appreciate for everyone's help. I think I have sort of understand about the relationship. Maybe I just be scared for the future. I am not good at making choose, especial the choose will affect for the future. He want to look for someone to share with him life. I thought that is a promise I cann't do. I am not make sure he is the guy I look for and want to share life with. I am comfused. How to make sure he is the guy who can take him on the trip of lifetime? It is a big question.maybe I am the guy who cann't let go..i cann't pretend that nothing to happen. I care about all of the things..bad feeling.

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what can I do to find him?
I don't know what's problem with me. when he come, I hurt him. when he go, I hurt myself, what did I do? actually I a little know that I like him. But now he leave and cann't come back? what should I do? Or just let him go. Then everybody happy....I very appreciate for everyone's help. I think I have sort of understand about the relationship. Maybe I just be scared for the future. I am not good at making choose, especial the choose will affect for the future. He want to look for someone to share with him life. I thought that is a promise I cann't do. I am not make sure he is the guy I look for and want to share life with. I am comfused. How to make sure he is the guy who can take him on the trip of lifetime? It is a big question.maybe I am the guy who cann't let go..i cann't pretend that nothing to happen. I care about all of the things..bad feeling.

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Let go him. When he will be back, he love you.

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Hi Hebe,

I advise that you first take a look of yourself in front of the mirror and ask your self "what have I done?" or "where did I go wrong?".  I hate to say this but it seems the problem lies in you (based on your confession).

I believe you are at the right age and mature enough to enter such relationship.  just be firm!  if you really love that guy, then don't hurt him.  If don't love him on the other hand, let him go and stop hurting yourself!

now, it seems that you still love him until now.  it's better to change your attitude first to avoid the 'hurting' to happen again.

:)

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Hello Hebe

There are many ways "to find him"...
But first you have to ask that question to yourself... What do you want really?  It is essential to find good reasons so stay with him or to let him go... No one can answer to that question for you !

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Hello Hebe,

Yeh let him go for now and  concentrate on learning some English；）. If you think you really hurt him on purpose ,then surely you were wrong. He might not come back and you have learned your lesson well.
Try to avoid hurting someone who loves you in your next relation.
If he comes back and forgives you, try not to hurt him again for no reason.
You should also ask yourself why you are doing so? 它不好的！

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Thinking about others first isn't always a good thing.
What will make you happy?
If you want him in your life, fight for him.
Don't hurt him, give your best to hold him.
And if it doesnt work, at list you'll know you have tried.
If you don't want him anymore, let him go.

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