You want to be an independent person but this is harder than you expected. Suppose you are a worker for government and your wife is a police. One day your wife asks you for some information about someone. You can access to the information but this is illegal. However your wife needs it to capture criminal. In this situation it is difficult for you to decide what to do. Although you have to abide by work ethic, at the same time you see wife crying. As time goes by, your stress increases.