if you are a foreigner & a girl leaves you just because you will have to return to your country some day!fair?
detailed story --- you are a foreigner in some country! and you love a girl and a girl loves you! this BURNING love continues for a year! and some day girl suddenly finds that "oh, this boy will leave my country some day and he will return to his country. so i have no future with this boy!"

and not because of your fault! but just because you are a foreigner and you will have to return to your own country, that girl leaves you!

now this is sad thing! who is at fault for this sad position? you, your girl friend, your destiny?

and most important is what should you do? should appriciate that girl should sink in sorrow? should find another girl? should cry on your destiny?

and yes....you deeply love that girl is truth!

i really need some directions!to all visitors of this question ----- may be this kind of questions are not proper for this website! i am sorry for this! but i think there are some good and kind people here! i want directions from them!

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if you are a foreigner & a girl leaves you just because you will have to return to your country some day!fair?
detailed story ---> you are a foreigner in some country! and you love a girl and a girl loves you! this BURNING love continues for a year! and some day girl suddenly finds that "oh, this boy will leave my country some day and he will return to his country. so i have no future with this boy!"

and not because of your fault! but just because you are a foreigner and you will have to return to your own country, that girl leaves you!

now this is sad thing! who is at fault for this sad position? you, your girl friend, your destiny?

and most important is what should you do? should appriciate that girl should sink in sorrow? should find another girl? should  cry on your destiny?

and yes....you deeply love that girl is truth!

i really need some directions!to all visitors of this question -----> may be this kind of questions are not proper for this website! i am sorry for this! but i think there are some good and kind people here! i want directions from them!

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another situation:
Before you came china, you have a girlfriend in India ,you loved each other much .
But you have to study in china for 3 years , can you request your GF to wait for you for 3 years?
i guess you definitely say no, such a kind person you are,you must do not want to waste a girl's springtime.

The same , you will not stay in china forever, and she don't want to leave her parents and goods friends, breaking maybe the only result of your love

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if I were that foreigner and really love that girl ,I will promise the furture with her.(take her away to my country or stay with her)
if not really love her, forget her then find another one. cause the sadness is temporary, he merely break up the habit with that girl.

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Hello

I think the best advice for that story is to keep the dialogue open...
Because both of you one day could change and the situation could be completly different... Your relationship could be uncomfortable for a while but it is another step if you really in love with that person...

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Hey Royal Shiny,
I've read some of your answers and I like your style. 
I'm no good an giving advice.  I've said it before and I'll say it again.... maybe you should head on down to the love shack and post your story:

Here's what they say:  http://www.LoveShack.org ; an interpersonal relationship advice and assistance center providing a forum to confront personal conflicts, promote participation in self-discovery and responsibility, and to share dating tips, love advice, and platonic relationship resources.

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