First your question isn't very understood.....but any way if you mean what is better to send ...for your friend wedding or marriage.....you 'd better go and participate in the party i mean to help in housework or to serve some of her/his best friends and important people by yourself...then she will observe that you are really interested and helpful.....and if you can bring a small cheap present for her or them it would be very very nicce and effecting becaues in sush celebrations ..people don't ask about how much you bought it ,but they try to see if you really interested and happy for them.....i hope i answred as you want

Send yourself to her wedding party. Gift? how about a cookware set.

I agree that your question is confusing. If your relations are very good friends and they got married, then of course send them a present. Ask their parents what would be most useful. Sometimes a store voucher is best, then they can buy whatever they need.

send blessing,I think it is most well gift..

money